Ever since Diddy‘s fierce female creation Danity Kane hit the music scene after Making the Band nearly 10 years ago, we’ve learned how to be independent, get what we want and do things that the girls don’t do. With their hit “Damaged” they taught us that while we’re not busy show-stopping, it’s okay to break down your walls and be vulnerable, too. But above all else: never apologize for being your damn fabulous self. With the help of the gorgeous group, you’ll see that finding Mr. Right is a piece of cake! And after following these steps, who wouldn’t want a piece of you?