• Season 4, Ep 5

Dr. Jenn Confronts Liz

Dr. Jenn gets real about the severity of Liz's insults towards Jon and the impact on their relationship.

01/30/2014 ยท 3:05

[laughter]

>> YOU LIKE HAVING SEX, PERIOD.

>> I LOVE HAVING SEX, PERIOD.

>> [laughs] WHO DOESN'T?

>> I THINK ABOUT IT ALL THE

TIME.

I'M SUPER ATTRACTED TO LIZ.

SHE TOUCHES ME, AND IT'S LIKE,

"WHOO."

>> [laughs]

>> IT'S AWESOME.

I MEAN, I'VE NEVER REALLY HAD

THAT BEFORE, BECAUSE MY

MARRIAGE WAS JUST SEXLESS.

IS THAT A WORD?

>> IT IS.

>> AND IT WAS LIKE A JOB, LIKE

SOMETHING YOU HAD TO PERFORM

BECAUSE YOU WERE MARRIED.

WITH LIZ--WHEN SHE GETS IN

HER MODE WHERE SHE WANTS TO

HAVE SEXUAL INTERCOURSE...

I'M LIKE, "OH, YEAH, I'M--

YOU KNOW, I'M READY."

YOU KNOW.

>> HOW DOES IT FEEL FOR YOU ON

THOSE OTHER TIMES WHEN I IMAGINE

YOU GET REJECTED?

>> OH, THEN I JUST GO

MASTURBATE, SO...

[laughs]

>> YEAH.

>> I'M NOT WORRIED ABOUT IT,

'CAUSE I'M ALREADY PRIMED, YOU

KNOW, WHAT DO YOU--

>> YEAH.

>> AND WHAT CHOICE DO I HAVE,

YOU KNOW?

>> AND YOU GUYS HAD A CONFLICT

EARLIER THAT WAS AROUND THAT.

>> YEAH, I WENT TO MY ROOM, AND,

LIKE, I LAID DOWN, AND I WAS

GONNA MASTURBATE OR WHATEVER

YOU WANT TO SAY...

>> MM-HMM.

>> BUT THEN, LIKE, SHE CAME IN.

THEN SHE, LIKE, RIPPED THE

COVERS OFF, YOU KNOW--

>> I WAS, LIKE--BUT I WAS SUPER,

LIKE, MORT--I WAS, LIKE,

MORTIFIED, ACTUALLY.

I WAS, LIKE, SUPER OFFENDED.

>> WHY?

>> BECAUSE I WAS JUST LIKE,

"WHAT THE [bleep], DUDE?

I'M RIGHT HERE."

>> DO YOU REMEMBER WHAT YOU

CALLED HIM, WHAT YOU SAID?

>> NO, BUT IT WOULDN'T SHOCK ME

IF YOU TOLD ME.

>> DO YOU REMEMBER?

>> YEAH, I DON'T REMEMBER.

>> I BELIEVE SHE CALLED YOU A

PUSSY.

DO YOU UNDERSTAND HOW HOSTILE

AND HOW EMASCULATING THAT IS?

YOU WALKED IN.

HE WAS HAVING A PRIVATE MOMENT.

YOU SHAMED HIM AND HUMILIATED

HIM AND EMASCULATED HIM.

>> [sighs]

>> WHY WOULD YOU SHAME HIM AS

OPPOSED TO JUMP ON IT AND SAY,

"HEY, I'M GONNA JOIN THE FUN"?

WHY WOULD YOU GET SO ANGRY?

>> I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO

SAY.

>> LIKE, I HAD A MARRIAGE LIKE

THAT FOR TEN YEARS.

I MEAN, I LOVE LIZ TO DEATH, BUT

WHEN SHE SAYS STUFF LIKE THAT,

IT'S LIKE, "WHO ARE YOU?"

LIKE, IT'S--

I ALMOST PUT IT IN THE PLACE

LIKE, "OH, YOU'RE KATE."

>> OH!

>> NO, THAT'S TRUE.

>> BUT IT IS.

>> WHEN YOU--WHEN YOU'RE--

>> YOU'RE ACTING JUST LIKE THAT.

YOU'RE ACTING AT EVERYTHING THAT

WAS MOST PAINFUL FOR HIM IN HIS

PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP.

NAME-CALLING IS NEVER ACCEPTABLE

IN A RELATIONSHIP, EVER, AND IF

SHE CALLS YOU A NAME LIKE THAT,

YOU NEED TO MAKE A BOUNDARY AND

SAY, "IT IS NOT ACCEPTABLE TO

TALK TO ME THAT WAY."

>> LIZ, WELL, WHAT DOES THAT

INFORMATION DO TO MAYBE HELP YOU

TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENTLY IN

YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

>> [sighs]

JUST BE MORE RESPECTFUL AND

RESPONSIVE TO YOUR--

>> LIKE, I WANT TO BE RESPONSIVE

TO YOUR NEEDS TOO.

I JUST DON'T WANT TO FEEL BAD

ABOUT MASTURBATION.

DO YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN?

>> AND YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE TO BE.

OKAY, GUYS.

THANK YOU FOR BEING SO OPEN.

>> YEAH.

>> I REALLY APPRECIATE THAT.

>> [laughs]

>> THANK YOU FOR LETTING US GO

FIRST.

>> YEAH, RIGHT? SWEATING.

>> NO, BUT TALK ABOUT SETTING

THE BAR.

>> SO HOW IS EVERYBODY ELSE

DOING?

[laughter]