Although Chilli enjoys her date with Kelly, she doesn't feel a connection with him.
A chilli tell your gurl tionna that she is a cute pie
Chilli you are a very smart women, I'll tell you what a very smart women told me one day when my heart got broken you can't go looking for love, love will find you.
Why do you have to bring race into it?? I dont think she is saying they are "SuperFine" just because they are white. Haven't you seen white girls who you find attractive? She has complimented both black guys and white guys on their looks but in the end hasn't chosen any of them. Stop trippin and dont believe the hype. There are black women who find ALL men attractive just like there are Black, Asian, and White men who find different races of women attractive and exotic.
How did you came to that conclusion??Most of them seem like players,commitment phobes,disrespectful??ASSUMPTIONS can be a dangerous thing.Most black men only want to "hit and quit" yet again, assumptions have you met most black men?how do you know those brothers that went out with chilli only want to hit and quit??Matter of fact, probably the non-brothers just want to "hit and quit" but that seem just impossible to some sisters.I would agree with you on mayweather to some extent.He do seem like someone who like to showoff and like attention but I do not know the guy I probably might be wrong about him... I Digress...SMH.."she will approach a respectful and intelligent man differently and with less trepidation" basically you saying all the dates she went on with black men on the show were disrespectful and unintelligent dates but when she went out with this white man (ugly one too) it was a respectful and intelligent date...All the brothers chilli went on dates with were perfect gentlemen she was just very guarded...I hope to god you're not a sister if so you're so brainwash it's not even funny..Let me just clarify this misconception, the VAST majority of black men date/married to black women in America,Caribbean,Europe and Africa.So saying black men are not checking for black women is FALSE so please stop believing the hype... I'm not African American but West Indian (Caribbean) and I observe that some black men/women Americans and in some cases West Indian too are so brainwash in terms of white people it's despicable and down right shameful...
chilli needs to look at herself first before she finds her soulmate cuz clearly she is too picky
Please! do the Brotha's a favor...and take alllllll that! Drama to the ....White Boys...that she clearly thinks are ..."Super Fine"...just because they were...white...because some of those white dudes looked like...Dudly!
Out side what ..."Race"....the human race!.....you"ll all are crazy if you all cannot see that this girl has major!!! issues that she has to deal with before she dates anyone!
I disagree, most of those guys came off as players (Darvet), committment phobes (Christian), too many baby mamas (Floyd) or just plain rude and disrespectful (the boxer from "you got your sweat on me"). Black women with self respect are not looking for a man who wants to hit and quit. If you are honest you will admit that most black guys fall into these categories or arent checking for a black woman at all so of course she will approach a respectful and intelligent man differently and with less trepidation.
I NOTICED THAT TOO Icemand18...but I find that in many black women. I think because she looks at them WITHOUT the same distain she HOLDS for ALL the black men of HER PAST and projects THAT on the ones of her future. I wonder did she call Usher A BOY like she did many of the other YOUNGER men... Umm hmmm...
I think alot of the women who date the high profile men compare every other man TO THAT and that's why they can't connect with the next man.
I agree with you icemand18. She just may need to date a guy outside of her race.
Have anyone notice the likability and respectability chilli give out when she's on date's with a non-brothers??I'll seem to notice there is some disparity between the two groups of men. If you think I'm paranoia just watch all the episodes/bonus clips with non-brother and vice versa..This is just an observation...