After their argument in Palm Springs, Jessica and Sheree meet to discuss what happened and how to move past it as friends.
I like Jessica for the main reason that she's a free spirit and she has a good heart. I don't feel that she intentionally sets out to hurt anyone, but I think, after having read this blog from WEEZER, that the only criticism I have of her is the fact that she tried to self-impose her beliefs about not eating meat on the girls, just like Sheree feels that they all should pray before they eat. I feel like this, if that’s your thing to pray before eating, by all means, DO IT, but don't expect others to join in, hold hands, bow heads and expect the man of the cloth to join in and sprinkle holy water, just because that's what you're used to doing. With respect to the meat situation, same thing. If you feel that strong about it, when you know the girls are going to go to a restaurant for a meal, and it's not going to be a vegetarian spot just to suit you, decline the invitation and do your own thing, 'cause no one should be made to feel guilty (or uncomfortable) to do what you do or don't do just because that's your belief. It's downright sacrilegious! I'm highly allergic to shelled fish (lobster, shrimp, crab, etc.) however, when I have gone out with friends, even in Mexico, where there's an abundance of shelled fish at any given restaurant, I NEVER felt that someone should not order what they wanted to eat just because I couldn't eat it. What kind of shyt is that? A good friend of mine and I once went to a restaurant where they served all sorts of shelled fish and other stuff too. She was so thoughtful to ask me if I felt uncomfortable about her ordering shelled fish that she wouldn't. I was like, "GIRL, ARE YOU KIDDING? YOU BETTER GET YOUR GRUB ON AND ENJOY IT"! Live and let live!
Now you know, that is what I am talking about Mz. Bella, Bella. I previously blogged that Jessica, nor anyone for that matter, should have to bite their tongue and walk around on eggshells when in a social setting, such as what the ladies had going on that day in Palm Springs. How was Jessica supposed to know that by her mentioning about her abortion that it would set Mayte off the way it did? Mayte's behavior obviously set off some negative vibes, which prompted Jessica to reach out to her via text and/or e-mails after the Palm Springs incident, to which Mayte chose to ignore, so what is a girl to do, kiss her azz, beg and plead for her forgiveness till she was blue in the face, give blood? Come on...puh-leeze, give me a serious break! And by Mayte not responding to Jessica, she had time to build up the anger she released at the restaurant, and not in a very nice way I might add. She was out of control and very unlady-like. You cannot blame Jessica for trying, but you can definitely blame Mayte for not trying. For something that had absolutely nothing to do with Mayte in the first, second or last place, Mayte made it all about her situation. I do not think so. Mayte needs to grab grips and continue with her therapy, because if she does not, oops! someone else may say something not to her liking and set her off again to the point of, and forget tossing glass, how about shooting bullets?! Hey, you never know. Girlfriend is not wrapped too tight..
I havent seen it yet but all these shows are scripted. I'm sure what happened to her and Prince's baby was beyond traumatic esp. in the public eye & then the inability to handle it ending their marriage,but it's been 16 years! How is it that she can't handle that but can be friends FRIENDS with that gold digging next ex of Prince's Manuela who sued him in the divorce and tried to break HIS bank. I can't stand her. I almost fell out my chair when I saw them talking and her a z z was insensitive if any of it can be believed going on about her baby and telling Mayte she gotta get the right man first (really?!?! Eric Benet who cheated on Halle all over the place, guess Prince broke her in for him). So glad Prince (my Love) is still fine, talented, did I mention FINE? I'm still thinking about him and I never had him. I guess if I ever did and lost him like he was all in love with her and put it out there for the world to see.....I'd still be heartbroken too. See that's how I know Manuela's tail only married him for his money!
I couldn't believe how ridiculous mayte looked. She's living in the past and really is unstable. It's so sad that she can't move on from the past like most people do. The girls were wrong to target Jessica and especially to bring up her abortion. She took it like a real woman and walked away. Also, she apologized to Mayte. WTH did Mayte want from her? Drea is a follower and she needs to step up her glam game bc not only is she extra personality-wise, but she looks tore up! lol
It appears that the majority are in agreement that Mayte was dead wrong with her over-the-top outburst towards Jessica? Working herself up into a dramatic frenzy to throw a glass, puh-leeze, that was so uncool & I never expected Mayte to behave that way. Mayte's miscarriages had nothing 2 do with Jessica, just like Jessica's abortion had nothing to do with Mayte, so why trip? Mayte was itching for a fight. She needs 2 admit that she was wrong and apologize 2 Jessica for her childish behavior.
I thinkshe kept apologizing because the wa Mayte was looking at he and no one was saying anything she tried to change the subject andordered a drink and Mayte went here! She did sound crazy. Wh is he miscarriage moreimportnt than what Jessica went througha 17 wth her abortion? Both circumstances were heart breaking to both ladies and both should be able t deal with as the please. Once Maytend out she had an abortion Jessica was on her it list!
How is it that other shows on this network can be posted online within a day or two of airing, but this one takes almost a week?! Get on it people.
When i seen Sheree for the first time she rub me the wrong way, i predict her as playing both sides. I like Nicole because she does not like the drama.
People on here are quick to judge. I happen to like all the ladies, but there are times when you are going to not see eye to eye with your girls. I empathize with Mayte, and in the same sense I empathize with Jessica. You people are quick to hate and choose sides when this is what happens when you have a group of people together. I have seen worse behavior from different shows. I happen to like all due to the amount of class they have compared to most women in reality shows.
Very true that Jessica has said some crazy, racist, stereotypical things regarding Afrikan-Americans. They should have checked her butt right then and there. Now with this whole abortion thing, they are taking it too, too far. 000a
It's sad Mayte had a bad appointment. But to take it out on Jessica. Was so uncalled for.000aAndrea is one heck of an instigator, Yet she calls Jessica a mouth? Get real.000aNicole is such a beautiful lady. She is always fair, always even tempered.000aSomeone to be admired!000a
In addition, I do believe that she did try to show some empathy in this episode when Mate approached with that subject. But I also think that they do have to make this show a little more interesting by having some sort of drama, especially Myte because she was a little more boring then the rest of the gals. it looked forced to me and fake.
I don't think that they are targeting Jessica at all.. Jessica does in fact have an unbridled way of putting her beliefs on everyone else. She is very Passive- Aggressive and she is very opinionated. So at this point she has rubbed all but Eddy's ex the wrong way...For Ex. How on earth are you gonna tell a grown person not to eat meat around you. Who do you think you are? If you don't like people to eat meat then stay away from those people or get over it and just do you.
Mayte, this show is making u look gravely obsess regarding ur unhappy moments from the past. Jessica life has nothing to do what happened to u. U take that up w/ the Lord. No one on this planet should revolve around u, sweetie. It's crazy enuf we all have to tend to our own path & consequences. However, Good for u you r searchin' for other alternatives. And I still dislike Andrea :-P
I Think that Mayte target Jessica How many times should Jessica have apologize to her
And as for Bible toting, holy sanctified Sheree, even though Jessica apologized to her about the incident in Palm Springs, which I thought was very big of her, she should be careful about trusting her. Sheree's a hypocrite, one who plays both sides of the fence (like Drea) and can be very judgmental. For someone who's into the Bible and prays a lot, there's something about her that rubs me the wrong way.
cut this show some slack, they atually had a civilized talk its not like they threw drinks or hopped over tables !!!!!! well not in this case lol
She said the bible is fake.....WOW!
U have NO heart!
The 8th espisode(8/9/2012) was by far the most coo coo episode. This must be some VH1 producers instigating for ratings crap. I was scratching my head throughout the entire episode. You'all made Mayte look like a nut, made Drea look like mess starter and Sheree is the mosted hated on the show, because she is terrible. Nicole Murphy, is the only one who so real, it's riduculous. I can't wait until they produce her spin-off show. Mayte, WOMAN UP!!!