Chilli seeks her therapist's help with a difficult issue. A romantic date in the country takes a surprising turn.
WTF Chilli, you go to NYC and you can't go to Jersey? I mean you stayed over for an extra day for a man you just met and you couldn't go to see your father. Jersey and NY are so close. you expect him to come all the way to Atlanta but you can't even go see him when you are near his town, WTF? you have to be willing to work with the man. Her brother looks just like his father. They are like twins.
lol...Are you serious CHILLI. WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND A WHITE WOMEN YOU MEANT? We all have different color skin, we all have flaws, some women will do certain things that others will not do. Some women are not so good in the eyes of MEN period no matter the skins colr Chilli. But personality is the key when it come to MEN. He like sweet women, submissive women, non-controling women, real women with a little bit of superficial looks whether it be boobs, hair, fake nails etc...It depends on the man and oo women. So please stop asking embarrasing question that make you sound silly. I know you smarter than that love. Think before you speak you are on TV. But I know you did not know any better. So you get a pass
Chilli is scaring men off, she is looking for husband and kids with out letting the men get to know her better. How can you think at dam near 40, looking for puppy love. Chilli need to **** Scott and go with the flow. She might not be the right one for him either. SEX is good and will determine the relationship if you have sex or not have sex. Men are physical being, and shaloow also. you have to look good dam near superficial, and give head, So Chilli you better go buy a toy and just be celibant. That works for me. You still get free meals, and date but without the expectation of SEX. No man geting this at this point please yourself until you feel he is the right man to make love too. Sex is the least of my list.
"What Chilli Wont"
everything you don't want to happen,they're the very things that will help you grow up.exept the things like cheating and pain to get rea life gain.then you'll know how to treat a real man,and not haveto ask him to except PI following him!! REALLY GIRL LET YOURSELF GROW!! and stop thinking your already grown! YOUR NOT YOU HAVE A LONG WAY TO GO!!!
So, she hook up with the white dude, the model. He is cute. he seems like a sensitive dude. He is sweet. But has another side to me. Girl. Just take it slow. Man come and go. But then again, she does want another baby. I don't think I want to go through that experience again. That was some pain. Oh No. it's makes think twice before I have my 2nd, that's if. I do. I don't know.
Good Lord...Chilli?? How can you say you'll be a mother MORE than a wife?? Geeez....No wonder he ran away...
Chilli should pick Lasse! He seems nice... and is a MODEL!!! CUTE!
Well once you become a woman and know what life has to offer you then know exactly what you want. Most men like to play around and just get what they can get and not have to commit. Falling in love fell to the waistside because lust is so easy access these days. What's wrong with falling in love and having a family? Its like she's catching up from all the years she lost being on the road. I love how she knows what she wants, she's a great role-model for young girls. Standards which leaves no regrets later.
Ok fellas - if you want to get with Chilli, just tell her you want to have a baby, and she'll be eating out of your hand. Oh, and tell her what she wants to hear, she doesn't care about honesty, she cares about hearing what she wants to hear and pretending its real, so she can cry later when she finds out it's not true. Lasse is looking for bragging rights, he's really just trying to get her into bed. International model, yeah sure - unemployed and looking for a meal ticket. Scott seems like a playa playa, but still more down to Earth than Lasse I think. I can't blame her for being picky, these days you kinda have to be, but it seems like its all a front and she's really just looking for a willing baby-daddy.
I like Chilli but she is so blah!!! VH1 please bring back RAY J!! <3
DESPERADO why dont you come to your senses??? (That's a song by the way folks) OMG Chili STOP you are sooooooo embarassing yourself!!! No guy wants to be dissected on the first date to see if he's marriage material. You really look sad. Lighten up you're not that great of a catch when you look that desperate.
I just woke up from a nap with this one!!!!!! lol smh
OMG Chilli please relax! How many times can you tell the man that you want kids and marriage I believe he gets that but honey you can not be pushy! You can not expect to meet someone and in a couple days feel that this is the person that you want so spend the rest of your life with get hitched and have a baby. You are scaring these men away girl for real. If there is a connection then great and take it from there. I know what you need to do is get over whatever Usher did to you get back with him and call it a day! BAM I solved your problem.... Your welcome lol smh
YAWNING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Because the show is "What Chiili Wants", Chilli HAS to outline what she wants in a man...and that's a child and marriage. I think it's ok for her to find out if the man she's seeking to be with wants the same. It just gets difficult because before any of that happens, a real relationship has to transpire. I think Scott was just not willing to make any promises without a relationship first. I think most people would love to be married in a perfect world, but the world and people are not perfect. You can love a person one day and hate his/her guts three months later, so nothing is promised.
No she didn't ask him that shallow ass question.......who cares what the difference....you're both women....white, black......ugh
chilli is too Deep too fast....after a few dates you usually know if the guy is what you want......as long as you don't have sex until you're sure......he also have to know and feel that she's the one too....but no man or sane women really need to get so deep too quick....I mean damn he hasn't even met her son yet......
No chilli didn't say she's traditional......and why would any man in their right mind want chilli....she's judgemental, slow, rigid, unavdventurous, and boring actually......why would anyone try that hard to be perfect for anyone but themselves......
That's why it is important to bring up that convo early. Like not every female is looking to walk down the aisle because they mention marriage, you do need to know if it's possibly going to lead to that otherwise it's a waste of time. I will say she will need to learn to put her husband/marriage even over her kids especially as a Christian that is just the order not that you neglect your kids or treat them like step children as it compares to your marriage but that things are in right order and your kids aren't running your marriage.