After Chrissy calls out Mama Jones' parenting of Jim, Jim and Chrissy seek out spiritual help from the number one reverend in hip-hop to mend their relationship.
all these women talking about how lucky chrissy is and how she should just stop complaining need to shut up... what you see on tv is not the whole truth. you are on the outside looking in so how can you make observations or assumptions as to how good the relationship supposedly is?
Reading these comments, I'm thinking people have not been in a relationship with a man like this. I was married to someone just like Jim (minus the weed smoking and rap industry). He had a similar mentality and having children with a man like that is very difficult, because he forever expects you to do everything and be everything to him, but he's only ever taking. He thinks money is his only contribution. That and the fact that he'll never walk away. It takes way more than that to make a relationship work. Jim is spiritually and emotionally immature and she needs more than he can give right now. That doesn't make him a bad guy, but it definitely makes it tiring to deal with him. I can totally relate to Chrissy's situation. And, I wish her the best.
Chrissy need 2 speak her mind, if she doesn't he will keep on doing that same old ****, she can hold him down , but she doesn't have to keep accepting the nonsense, this is why so many people lose it cause they keep allowing the bs to keep going on, everyone must stand up for themselves, so what he is making the money what does that mean? ask yourself, anyone can change, but he should be willing to change, he need to pull his pant up on his ass and be the man he suppose to be, Ms. Sheena will go anything, when tow people that doesn't mean as life goes on and we both begin to love one another that we can't make change to better the relationship, No Chrissy need drop is ass and come to me, soon or later it become very old
She has let him take her for granted so long that he loves her but has lost a bit of respect for her. He don't want to fall in line, but he don't want nobody else to have her.
Either Chrissy needs to hold it down unconditionally like First lady Michelle or "Move Forward" like Obama! If she so unhappy, many ladies will gladly and love to take her place.
I totally agree with the overall consensus of Chrissy being a nag and complaining all the time. So annoying! Poor Mr. Jones for having to listen to that all these years. She knew what she was getting into, the lifestyle, and how Jim was when she met him. Don't be trying to change him now. He can't change his cool and laid back personality. That's the way God made him and you can't squeeze a watermelon out of a turnip! That's not unconditional love! Chrissy needs to chill the hell out and stop with all the selfish whining about how miserable her life is when she chose that lifestyle. I would kill to sit on that money honey and have lots of cute babies by him. Chrissy needs to get off of her imperfect high horse and support her man by listening to his wants and desires. For goodness sake, the man gave her a ring! That should tell Chrisssy how much he loves her, but she till finds something else to complain about as an excuse to not marry him which was the main thing she was whining about all last season. She should step back and see the hurt in her man's face of wanting children and either sacrificially submit and give them to him or just leave and allow him to have children with someone that will appreciate him for who he is. The person that needs to change is Chrissy. The sad thing is is that Jim loves her so much, but she too wrapped up in herself to even realize a good thing in front of her.
I think chrissy is krazy because if i had a man like jim i will be at home holdding down for him and having as many babies as Mr. jim want to be for real problems is not where its at
for many years the women has held down the house..... it comes a point where we as women are going to have to give men some kinda credit for the things that they do...and we are going to have to cancel out that there are no good men out there.... jimmy is trying and at the end of the day she chose that life... and not one time has ***** about that money that comes from the checks he get.... not did she complain about the ring that he has placed on her hand.... she wants marriage and she got it.... just give him a chance crissy that alll we are saying... some men well most men are not argumentive... men deal with things in different ways... run gave advise but jimmy does not have to listen...
I really think that she is upset because her life is Jim and His life is music.... I know she understands he has to do what he has to for them to survive.... its just sad that he doesn't really value all the stuff she has done to keep their family together... his job is making the money, and he puts everything else on her... its takes 2 people to build a home... not a wife or girlfriend.
Being in a relationship with someone who's stuck in their ways is truly a battle, but what Chrissy needs to know is that she has played a part in Jims demeanor, they've been together for 8 years he didn't get like this over night, she has allowed this behavior from the start, but I understand her too, how long can they go on when he's only providing financially? QT is definitely needed to keep a relationship moving forward. I should know I've been with my husband 19 years and it wasn't easy, patience is a virtue. Good Luck Chrissy and Jim. Hey Jim if she doesn't want to give you a baby, my daughter will...lol
i understand Chrissy 100% especially because its how I feel at times and I can't stress enough that is IS the little things that matter as well as communication and letting all feelings out there is very important.
Is not a form of judging hon. At some point us women do nag. But when it's repeatative to the point that it's bothersome one must look at themselves, ask what's really going on with me, how do I feel about everything, then make positive changes. Nagging someone to the point they shut down, then gets angry & defensive never solves a thing.
I agree @georgiaj. @Donna one can't make someone change in the midst of a familiar setting. I'm sorry Chrissy made everything easy for Jim w/o setting certain guidelines. This is why I feel he feels he has no peice at home. To get a different result one must change the actions!
I'm not Jim & she's aggrevating me. Either she want that life or not. They both need to have a common ground, meet each other half way or something!
I think the same thing. She really needs to go to therapy alone. I think she is ruining her relationship..
Ms. Blonde fashion designer should ask the people who have their design in walmart, target, ross and such, how rich they are. Especially ask Lauren Conrad. Her clothes are in Kohls and she makes a fortune...She sounds silly and I would not want to do business with someone with that attitude. That is how celebrities and regular people get rich. Catering to their followers and the masses. Not just the well off.
The bottom line is that she has been with this man for 8 years. He did not become this way, he was always like this. My mother always told me how you start your relationship is how it will end up. I think she should stop trying to change him and try and be happy. Like someone said, when you play married before you're married this is what happens. He has no reason to do anything different, and I do not necesarily think he should.
Another episode of Crissy and her perpetual nagging! I think she is walking on thin ice with this man. She is going to eventually run him off.....