Can everybody play nice when the Football Wives step on the field for a friendly game of flag football? Watch!
gotta luv melani
I agree with Kay, Pilar those women does nothing foryou . don't let them get under your skin. and ha i know you may have a contract with VH1 AND the show but get out of there as soon as you can
Hey Crystal, I think Pilar is just mad because Chanita made everybody realize that there is NO WAY IN HELL she is 28. If she's 28 hell I pick 27 WTF.
I AGREE 100%
The only people that I actually do like are Pilar and that girl that left.. This show is ridiculous
Milan is the realest! but i'm sick n tired of TEAM FOSTER! this n FOSTER that....shut the FOST up!
Good one Chanita ..."they don't need the distractions, wear some panties" ..lol..lol..
i sooo love Milani, Rocket's wife..so classy!
Wow, Pilar is reallly stuck-up. She wants them to come into her world participate and be happy. However, when they invite her to participate in their activities she just sits there like when will this be over.
This show is proof that there is no quality programming left on this channel.
PILAR ...YOU AND PRIMETIME NEED YOUR OWN SHOW!!!! YOU DO NOT NEED ...TOO BE IN THE COMPANY OF , THOSE WOMAN, IT MAKES YOU LOOK BAD. YOU ARE BETTER THEN THAT. THOSE WOMAN ARE ALL JEALOUS OF YOU . PILAR IS MARRIED TOO ONE OF THE GREATEST ATHLETES IN AMERICA PRIMETIME, SO THESE WOMAN ARE JEALOUS OF YOU AND YOUR LIFESTYLE.. THESE WOMAN ARE TOXIC. RUN FOR THE HILLS START YOUR ON SHOW WITH PRIMETIME ...PRIMETIME WILL MAKE A GREAT SHOW . BUT IF YOU DO THAT , MAKE SURE YOUR IN CONTROL THIS TIME . AND A ANOTHER THING ...THESE WOMAN WISH THEY LIVED LIKE PILAR...THERE BROKE AND MAD!! it's so obvious too anyone who's not stupid!!!! none of you woman can be mad at pilar ...for your life decisions....*get a life * ,... AND TOO PRIMETIME KEEP SUPPORTING YOUR WIFE...THESE WOMAN WISH THEY WERE LIVING LIKE PILAR!!! REAL TALK..FEEL THAT!!!!!! TEAM PILAR ALL DAY EVERY DAY... AND TOO THE LAWYER I HAVE TWO SAY YOU ARE MAKING YOURSELF LOOK LIKE A FOOL ON THE SHOW ... ...YOU ARE AN EDUCATED LAWYER....AND YOU ACT CRAZY ...STOP HANGING WITH THAT *GHETTO DISCIPLE *...AND ACT LIKE YOU WENT TO LAW SCHOOL . I LIKE MELANI...SHE CAN SING!!!! NOW SHE SEEMS COOL AND REAL. BUT NOT THOSE OTHER WOMAN.
No one said she had a substantial relationship with Wesley. I said he was crazy about her. Two very different things. I also never said anything about Jey being "in love", just that he was her man... for a good while. Only he knows how he truly felt. You are stretching. It's called READING COMPREHENSION. Don't try to twist my words to support your sordid non-supported so-called facts or to try to make someone you don't even know look the way you want her to. But hey, she's not even a dude and yet you're hell-bent on holding her strap for her. I guess someone's gotta do it. Meanwhile, she's home not even thinking about you. I mentioned that we weren't crazy close because I didn't want to come off disengenuous like yourself (you pretend to know oh-so-much but you're the one who doesn't add up)and act like I was on the phone with her all the doggoned time because I wasn't. But we were cool and I could comfortably call her a "friend" which I can't do for a lot of people out there with whom I associate. As for her child... get real. We are in a day and age, sadly, where "baby mama's" are more the social norm unfortunately. If he didn't want to marry her, he wouldn't have. If he didn't want to stay married (I think either you or someone else said something about some kind of prenup-- I don't feel like re-sifting through the garbage), he wouldn't. He doesn't come across as someone who gives a damn about "public opinion" so I'm more than sure if he wanted out, he would have exited. As for me, you don't know me sweetheart. I carry my own success. Don't need to be defined by a man. But you're real good on speaking on what you don't know. My badd, I interrupted you. PS: I know you didn't just say homewrecker Angelina who married an engaged rich man (and French-Kissed her own brother in public) before she blew up- let alone heavily pursued a married man (though they do appear to be happy now) needs to be even more glamorized in the lobotomized public eye. She endangers herself to help those in struggling countries but completely ignores the poor in her own. Hmmm... yep, she needs more glamorization. On top of that we need to further glamorize let's-exploit-15-year-olds-without-their-parent's-consent Tyra. OK. Whatever. You're comedic. Keep on spinning. It's entertaining at best. Thanks! :-)
To say I sound silly just to defend Pilar who you don't know yourself, it's retarded. Like I said, I do not believe in these trashy shows to be fed to young viewers. If you do in fact know Pilar, then, please, get off this blog.VH1 does not care for her family's or friend's feelings about this woman. VH1 cares about providing quality shows and I am letting them know with this blog that this is trash for any woman with minimum self-worth, values, and morals. The people in this show need to get some other hobby or job, mainly Pilar. And, by the way, do not waste your breath telling me how I should invest my energy and time. You and I are obviously very different types of human beings. I do not stand for women making careers out of marriages and it seems you love that. Good for you! But a little education on the subject and the consequences that it has on society would help you see that it is important to care about these issues. But I don't expect most of the people watching shows like this to even begin to comprehend. The entertainment you seek is pitiful based on if these women have friends, want to be friends, or who fights or who doesn't. You are poisoning your little mind with this entertainment. BUY A GOOD BOOKJ AND TRY TO READ IT OR RENT A GOOD MOVIE!! These shows are public garbage!
Kind of disconcerting that someone would take the time to record all of this information and report it on a blog. Who really cares? All of the wives have some shortcomings. I see Pilar as being guarded. She is not a joiner and that does not make her a bad or even evil person but she has been villianized for not wanting to hang with the girls, that is her perogative. I think she needs to let the thing with Dawn go or have the one on one talk that Dawn proposed. All the energy you are wasting trying to discredit her makes you look silly, not her. She is a character on TV, truly no one really cares, unless they have no life. Take a breath and dont extole so much energy on someone you obviously do not know, when you know them you dont have to quote having documentation to prove your points. it sounds silly.
@Ladie K I feel bad for you because you canâ€™t even follow with simple arithmetic. It makes no sense what you are saying. Pilar turns 37 in January so this means she graduated from high school in 1992. You stated that she dropped from college in 1994 after only 2 years and during that time she had 2 substantial relationships with foolball player Jayson and Wesley Snipesâ€¦ you are making this woman look even worse!! Also you contradict yourself first saying you know her but were not tight yet you pretend to know how close and legitimate her intentions were in pursuing celebs and confirming how these men felt for her. How would you know if Jayson or whoever was all in-love? You make no sense. What I posted can be verified, check when she married Deion and when she had Shilo. I happen to sincerely care about advocating for quality TV and genuine role models, mostly in networks with young viewers like VH1. We feed trash to our young kids particularly girls and then we wonder why they quit school and get pregnant too early. Women like Pilar should not be glamorized. There are many other women on the spotlight that deserve this status like Julia Roberts, Angelina. Beyonce, Oprah, M Obama even Tyra but many others who are doctors, nurses, pharmacists, psychtherapusts, and CEOs, Lisa Robertson is a perfect example, a host at QVC and excellent historian and gorgeous. Those women manage to be beautiful outside and inside and spend their lives working and building themselves, not pursuing relationships with â€śrichâ€ť men. Women should have their own money, make their own decisions, and chase their own success. But there many women like yourself and Pilar and thatâ€™s sad. I just hope VH1 gets the point. You, on the other hand, are hopeless and will probably never get it. Best wishes to you though.
Pardon me, she may have left in '94. I thought one of my memories with her was in '95, but the event happened in '94.
I don't like how Pilar was attacked to begin with a Real Woman would have pulled her aside, if they had a problem with her.
@Tuii... as someone that actually went to school with Pilar and knows her as one of the coolest people to hang with (we were never super-tight, but she had proven to be an actual friend and hopefully I've done the same for her back in the day), I can say unequivocally that a lot (not all) of your so-called documentation is way off. And the other stuff I can't speak on because I don't have a problem saying I don't know if they are true or not.
First and foremost, all of them dudes were on HER tip, not the other way around. You sound like a friend of someone's ex- whether it be Pilar's husband's ex-wife or one of the other dudes you mentioned. But your dates are way off. "Jeyson" was a very tall, very handsome football player, NOT a basketball player and he was her man for a good while. Wesley, who happened to be a friend of one of my cousins, was crazy about her-- while she was in college, which she left in '95. Her association with LL- thought to be more just because she was the last chick in the "Doin' It" video- was in '95/96. Your dates are askew which tells me you don't know what the heck you're talking about. And for the record, she didn't twist anybody's arm to be with her. She certainly didn't force that dude Scott to propose to her and she was rebounding at the time so she leapt in full-force and it didn't work out after things settled down a bit. You paint a very sordid picture devoid of a lot of details that would show a beautiful woman with real emotions and whom happens to catch the eyes (and sometimes hearts) of very successful men. It is what it is.
Instead of spending so much time on trying to educate folks on what you don't know, why don't you put your energies into something more positive? I assure you, Pilar is not thinking about you, so don't worry about her so tough.
As for the show, the women are proving to be jealous of each other as well. They just can all focus on the "top chick", but if you watch, you can see, they slide slights and digs on each other that show they are too caught up on their status (or lack thereof) earned off of their husbands (and they had the nerve to say that of Pilar) and are jealous of anyone who has a higher status/more money than them. I couldn't believe that Dawn and Chanita were sitting in an event that was designed to help them learn ways to help their husbands transition and all they could think of was the event downstairs that they were not invited to. How selfish and self-centered. So if they had the choice (both invites), they would have chosen an opp to be "seen" at some posh dinner over an event that could help them help their husbands. SMH But you all want to hate on Pilar (who is married to a man who has already transitioned). LOL WHATEVA!