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Don't get ahead of yourself

Posted 3/2/09
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Discussing marriage when you first meet a guy, that's a one way ticket to Old Maids'ville... population: YOU!

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tressa (5/21/2012 8:42:46 AM)

I need help!!! How can you tell if a guy likes you or if he is just using you?

iagirl (6/17/2010 10:13:15 AM)

I Agree with the comment about a show with older women, I think it would make good ratings, I have not dated for awhile and have issues,do not trust because of past hurts or fear to get out there and date, ocourse with a make over :)Steve I would volunteer for your show :)

violet (6/2/2010 11:46:10 AM)

Omg ...Im 26 n a single mom... unemployed and trying to get in school.. looking for love is one of the hardest things to try n fit in in my life... and I dont know if I am even doing it right... I really need some help finding a "man" and not a "boy" since I already have one of those.

Valerie Toner Storione (5/15/2010 8:48:44 PM)

Steve you need to do a show about older women!

veezy (4/19/2010 5:48:03 PM)

try to communcate better, see what he has to say and listen dont interupt or argue with him. just have a simple easy going conversation and try to come to agreements. meet eachother half way and work on it. if you dont like arguing then dont argue with him even if he gets you mad. sometimes not aruging back either gives them time to cool off and realize how messed up they were acting or gets them more mad cause they want you to argue back but when you dont argue back within time they will just stop bickering because they already know theres no point in it for the simple fact that your not gonna bother wasting your breath.

veezy (4/19/2010 5:42:23 PM)

hes to into himself? time to show him how serious you are bout how you feel and what you want. if hes always getting mad at you; express to him how it makes you feel and that it needs to stop. if continues well then its best to put your foot down and move on or scare him into thinking your moving on. if he show he doesnt care once so ever then hes not worth it, if he shows he doesnt care some what but aint sweating it then he probably does care, remember men dont always show their emotions. they have to be tough so they think. but you need to put your foot down and leave so he can see what he had. sometimes you need to leave to show them what they had. i say the person who cares less in the relationship is the onee who has the power in the relationship. so true. so act like you dont care, do your own thing. becuase he shows he cares less your giving him so much attention cause the thought of you losing him. let the tabls turn. and if he doesnt make time then maybe hes not as committed as he should be

veezy (4/19/2010 5:28:55 PM)

this goes to all my ladies, i think communcation is key & although some men like to keep their feelings to themselves try to get them to open up or ask bout their past cause usually the past has an affect on their future. if a guy cheats more then two times GET HIM SOME HELP OR CUT HIIM OFF AND MORE ON if he refuses to get help then just get rid of him. if he constantly tells you the same thing & feeds you what you wanna hear to end the convo then he doesnt care enough to get help. aruging, not good. this is where you express how your really feeling towards his actions or attitude but also give him a chance to tell you where hes coming from and try to understand him. if he stops telling you he loves you and stops being affectionate it could possibly mean that hes not into you anymore or he cares but hes feelings grew apart and so he doesnt want you to get use to hearing it cause he doesnt wanna hurt you anymore then he already has by continuing to say it. if your boyfriend takes another girl to the dance and makes up some lie bout not dancing, thats an obvious lie. who takes someone to the dance and doesnt dance? yeah there might be feelings involved.

DC* (4/16/2010 3:46:57 PM)

My Problem With My Boyfriend Is Our Communication Skills. They're Basically Non-existent. I Just Don't Know If I'm Going About It All Wrong Or Not. We Are Both Fairly Young, Me Being 19 And Him 23. So I Know We Are Going To Still Have Some Issues, But Its Getting Worse. We Will Go A Few Weeks Or So Being Great, But Then There Will Be An Outburst. I Just Want It To Stop. But Then I Know We Will Always Have Arguments, I Just Don't Want It To Keep Escalating. What Should I Do???

dandan (1/16/2010 2:17:57 PM)

Well i have been having some issues with my boyfriend lately and i don't know what to do anymore ! Its really stressing me out. I asked him why did he get mad at me and he said "OH I DONT KNOW I DONT REMEMBER" and he said he doesnt want to talk about it ? What is that supposed to mean? And things between us have changed lately and he doesnt tell me he loves me anymore and when i try to hugh him he just steps back , and if i dont talk to him he wont talk to me at all ? and then he gets mad at me? I just feel that he wants to break up with me but like he doesnt want to at the same time! Also like i really do like him but i dont know what to do anymore ? I NEED HELP BADDDDDDDDDD!

Confussion (1/12/2010 11:51:10 AM)

My boyfriend wants to take his bestfriend to a school dance. They been friends for four years but I dont like the fact hes takeing another girl. He said he wont dance with her but they have to get a picture together. The picture part i cant get over because their very close in touching eachother. He gets made when I talk to guys also but i dont say nothing about him and talking to girls. I feel hurt alot but he seems not to care because hes gonna go to the dance. I dont know how to get over it or what to do. I feel change is comeing and I dont want it to.

Telly (12/20/2009 7:39:08 PM)

Ive been seeing this guy. We are just really good friends. I want more and he says he does too. But it seems like he is into himself and when something bad happens he always gets mad at me. He doenst seem to make the time for me and i dont know what to do??

MablelineDaQueen (11/27/2009 1:17:23 PM)

Though I am through with relationships...by choice, I think he's a right on point guy. I'm a female and it actually urks my nerves with the ridiculous/desperate things most women would do just to attract some daggon man and they're really not all that to begin with. This show and many other shows that women degrade themselves on, shows me that there are really some serious sick females out there. Which is why I chose not to associate myself with many of them and my social life has definitely been peaceful because of it(I get along better with males). I also think that he's cute. Loving them there eyez.

Kaitlyn420 (3/10/2009 9:56:45 AM)

wow...This guy is like the Simon Cowel for Insecure Women. I wouldn't even listen to most anything someone like this had to say. I'm sure I will like the show, just because most of us do like watching train wrecks...probably b/c it makes us feel good about ourselves :)

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