Tionna Smalls wants Chilli to go to a therapist to help her work on her issues. Watch the full episode Sunday May 9 at 10:30 et/pt!
Where is the full episode???
i don't care what people think about u,i like u but i understand that u been hurt in the past i think its time to let thing go and u could be happy again...love
wtf r u on about ?
I agree with you so much. I don't really ever give a crap about reality people. But Seeing Chili on this show. Has put a Really sour taste in my mouth. I will never support anything she does ever again. And the only reason I keep watching is cause I wanna see that therapist call her on her crazy bull shiz. But II like Tiana I think she is keeping it real and is not even a little bit of the mess Chili keeps trying to make her out to be. Maybe she is not in the best shape. But that girl has it together allot better then Chili probably ever will.
Chili just wants to date and Diss as many men as Tiana can supply. I really REALLY Dislike her now after this show. What a disappointment. And now she is trinyg to torture Tiana Cause she see's through Chili's Bull ****.
Chili is shallow. She does not know the difference between a list of core values & needs or a list of just wants that do not make sense. I think it may be daddy issues she has because who ever hurt her in the past has turned her into very damaged goods. She needs professional help. Even if she does "find" a man. As soon as he steps out her "perfect box" she will belittle him. Chili is SAD.
aww honey don't cry :'(
Chili, I pray to God you might read this comment someday, but I think you are really selling yourself short. You say you want a man who believes in God, you have no faith that he will provide you with the type of man you need. Instead you believe Tionna to find you a man. The bible says that a man that finds a wife finds a good thing and gets favor from the Lord. Stop allowing yourself to be displayed like this, it appears that you are desperate for a man, by having someone to hook you up with a man that matches your list descriptions. Love is usually something you stumble upon. Its unpredictable, just trust God will give you the right one that he designed for you; not someone chosen by someone else to that you might like. Your going about this thing the wrong way. And that result will only lower your self-esteem more. I know that as a single mother, it get hard, it gets lonely, hanging out with the girls is fun but you get tired of that all the time! I know! But faith is the ingredient your missing. Remember Faith? Its the thing that you hope for but can't see yet, but you just continue to believe that its coming and don't allow no one to make you doubt it! Not even yourself. There's nothing wrong with your list, it does seem far fetched and less likely to find a man with those exact quailties you desire. But that's just the thing you won't find him he has to find you. Because right now even if Tionna found you someone that your interested in, it still may not last because you might not be ready for it. You see when we get lonely and start to long for a man to fill the empty space, it usually means there is something we need to work on and fill that empty space with focus on whatever that thing might be to better prepare us for the lover of our dreams. You might find someone that fits what your looking for,and there be fireworks of chemistry, but what if he's not that into you? Then what? Heartbrake Hotel is where you'll go check in to soak and wallow until you find enough confidence to try again. Its a cycle Ladies. Besides the fairy tales love we look for, it does exist but only from the love of Jesus. Marriage is work, the hardest job you can ever imagine, you constantly deal with, heartbrakes, let downs, stood up, betrayal even, and set backs. The thing that makes it last past all that is forgiveness. If you think you are going to find a man that will sweep you off your feet, wine and dine you, have the most fun with you, make incrediable love to you, and be your best friend; without a down side to that, you R dreaming, because that's not human, people hurt people constantly because we don't live up to others expectations, and that why we get hurt and mad, because he/she didn't do what I expected them to do! That's why marriage is hard, I don't care who you marry, how find they are, how close you are to them, there are going to be some times where you are going to be disappointed, hurt, mad as hell, and ready to bounce! But when you say " I Do," your really saying, I Do Forgive you for all the ******** you have done, are doing, and will do, till Death do us part! It's call grace, that's what those who are called by God's name are now under GRACE! That why Marriage was the first Institution God created to teach us how to really serve oneanother in the institution of marriage. Because it is the same way we are to serve him, Now that's LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!! Some one who will stick by you no matter what, inspite of you. That's priceless, and REal! So Chili trust God, until he finds you! And in the mean time allow God to clean you up, and prepare you for real love, by teaching you what it really is, I like Tionna she's smart, but if she was WISE she'd know this, and this is what she would tell you too! Sincerely, A fan named Kia/ servant of God/Married with a Child/ Experieced/Encourager of my people/ more than conquer/understanding heart!
and to think most black men are raised but a black women. yet when it is time to date they prefer anything but a black women. yet the love there momma? weird?!!? chilli get u a white men and do not lower ur prefernces do u honestly believe that a men is going to lower their standards. we have black men out there that will not date a women based upon the color of her skin.
i feel that chilli shouldnt have to settle for just anything. however, it is said that even though chilli may want a black dude that black dude does not want her. it is very rare that a black men who makes 8 figures, and is physically fit, and doesnt eat meat and is a christian is going to want to get married especially to a black women.
@Dior i honestly feel sad for u and believe that you have issues. why spend your time watching the show and not to mention PREVIEWS for the upcoming show if u hate it so much. I tell u why u hate the fact that u dont look like chilli. I remember the last comment you wrote about ms. chilli talking about thats why most blk men are gay. i read that and i was like mr. dior is trying to justify his reason for being gay. get some help and stop hating.
Yea your probably right polyhymnia1,white guys like 2 be dominated by blk women,I'm not hating. LMFAO
@BlkGuy411 Chilli isn't pushing guys aside because of their looks, but how they act. I agreed with all of her decisions except...I think his name was Christian in the first episode and the white guy who was really great. If you're cocky, or like to have a lot of drinks at the club then she shouldn't have to deal with that. Chilli need to go back to that young white dude, he was hot. The name of the show isn't 'What Chilli Should Tolerate' but "What Chilli Wants." I do think the only guy that will meet her standards though is a white one.
Hey, don't put all blk women into that catagory just because one is acting stank. Not all blk women are like that. We don't take any mess. But I do agree that you should look within a person instead on outward.
You suppose to love people from within,NOT ON APPEARANCE,What ever happen to that.... I don't know,but it's a cruel world...She REALLY EXPOSED herself and it don't look good at ALL! YAAAAAYYYY White Women!!!! LMFAO
And to blk women who don't understand Y blk guys like white women,there's your answer! LMFAO
Honestly I think that Chilli should keep this whole finding a man thing to herself..The show really exposes how much of an ******* she really is..Some things are mean to be kept to yourself....PS:I HATE THE SHOW AND I NOW HATE CHILLI'S ATTITUDE....FAIL
Congrats Chilli,U just made black guys went 2 white women "Claps" Give your self a hand! lol
T-Boz went in LMAO.
that was the funniest thing I ever saw, them mockin' Tionna! Tionna you know you laughin too!!