Hey, I was expecting you.How are you?
Thank you for having me.
No problem.Come have a seat.Yes.
What happened to your leg?
Oh, I just recoveringfrom a silent nerve.
Oh, my God.
I just got outof the hospital.
And when I got out Ernestwasn't there for me.
And my son has beenchanging my dressing.
He's amazing.He's not even a nurse,he's a rap artist.
So, that's halfof why I'm here.
Because...What's been going on?
My husband... my ex-husbandgot out of prison,
he did some thingsto me and my son
and I got himlocked up for it.
But when he got outhe made me a promise
when we got back together
that he madesome mistakes in the past
and that he would make good on'em this time around.
Mhm.From day one I'vebeen there for him.
He didn't havebut two pair of underwear
and he was washingthem -- by hand.
And hanging themout to dry.
And I went, bought you clothes,put clothes on your back.
Now, he won't even help mepay the car note.Okay.
He's fussing at me for payinghalf of the rent.
-- light bill $110.
He got made 'causehe got to pay me $55.
He's doing stupid stuff,but what the queen won't do
is be no man's doormat.
That's whatI won't do.
So, I'm here toask you for help
with a post nuptial.
Let me just explain aboutthe post nuptial agreement.Mhm.
Both partieshave to agree.
And it's a give or take,
so what do you thinkyou'll be willing to give him.
I ain't giving him (bleep)because, one thing about it,
if I got to argue with you abouthelping me pay the bills...
oh, hell, no.
I don't-- I think it'sgoing to be very difficult
to get him to agreeto a post nuptial agreement
because, I mean,you're Momma Dee.
I'm pretty sure he feelsas if he hit the jackpot.
But in orderto protect Scrappy,
Jasmine, Emani,and you're other grandchildren
why don't we justdraft you a will.
And are we going to leaveMr. Ernest anything?No.
But he's your husband, so areyou-- how about the house?
That he can stay in your housewhen you leave?No.
At the end of the day if youwith me because you love me
or you with me becausewhat I can do for you.
I really need to know that.
This is my question.
You're basicallycutting him out of your will.
Yes.Are you sure you don'twant to get a divorce?
I don't.I want to make it work.
And right now I'm scared.Mhm.
And so that's whybasically I'm here.
I've been througha lot this year.
I've been through a lot.
I've trusted someoneI thought I could trust.
And I feel madea fool out of.
I'm sorry.I'm so sorry.
It's okay.Well, you know what,
I will-- you came to me
and I'm gonna do everything inmy power to help you.
And if you decide
after we draft your will...
then you decide that youwant to get a divorce
you cancall me as well.
And, you know,I'll take your hand
and I'll walk you through it.
Thank you.You're welcome.