I appreciate Amber Rose, her sexuality, and unapologetic nature when it comes to flaunting her body. What I don’t appreciate is the Internet treating her like a sex object in return. She shows off her curves and is regarded as “nearly burst[ing] out” of her clothes. She gets a piercing on her face, and for some reason it’s deemed “racy.” And what really pisses me off is people referring to her time and time again as “ratchet.” To me, putting her sexuality on display is liberating, and if you’re so shocked and offended by her body-baring pics and twerking vids, no one is forcing you to look at them. But PS: It’s 2015. And if you’re going to write someone off for putting their beliefs, which differ from your own, on display, then shame on you.
Before taking one glance and judging her, you should realize she’s a forward thinker and badass bitch; and as a woman, or anyone for the matter, you can learn from her and even look up to her. Here’s why.
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Her confidence is everything. And yours should be, too.
Any shape, size, color: She has your back. She wants you to feel as good about yourself as she does about you. So rock what your MF mama gave you.
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And you preggo ladies: You’re beautiful.
If you’re insecure about rocking your baby bump, allow Miss Rose to give you confidence. Because pregnant you is just as, if not more, sexy than usual you.
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She won’t stop being who she is just because she’s a mom.
She’s going to go out and get wild while her son is cozy in bed at home. And the best part is, she doesn’t give a shit what you have to say about it.
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Did we mention she’s very against slut-shaming?
Getting called demeaning names and using the haters as fuel to better herself and others is inspiring.
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And above all else, she puts family first.
While I love her constantly preaching the importance of individuality and sexuality, I admire that she always keeps family values intact as her No. 1 priority, and even her fame hasn’t changed that.